Don't let your pride drag you down! Your Amazing Do/Be Better!

There are times in everyone's lives where they will go through situations where by themselves they literally have no chance of moving forward from the situation and end up stuck in a rut. The thing that makes things worse though is when you let pride tell you to tell your loved ones/friends/family that you don't need there help you'll be fine, when it's really not the case.

I know in certain situations excepting help from others can make you feel awful like your a disappointment or useless especially if you believe it's your place to be taking care of the situation. 
Now this is where you pause and evaluate your situation... Usually it's gotten pretty bad by now and there really not much of a choice but to except the help offered to you or swallow your pride and ask for help. Honestly it might feel like the worst thing ever and make you feel bad but just remember if it's people that love and care for you there's really nothing for you to feel bad about.
There are many things in this world that are just simply out of our control and there's nothing much we can really do about it. So why waste type feeling some type of way about something you couldn't control or didn't purposely do?

In times like this it's best to think positively I know it's hard trust me I know ! But if you put more of your effort into helping resolve the situation or making a plan so you won't end up in this bad place again you'll find you'll feel a lot better about yourself and your situation and the time will fly by .
Everyone has to be humble sometimes, just don't take anything for-granted and make sure the ones you care about always know they're appreciated because no one likes helping someone to then feel like they were just being used, communication is key in all relationships especially when things aren't going to well.

If you take anything from this just remember it's okay to not be okay sometimes let a willing hand carry some of your burdens when you can no longer go on .

Stay blessed guys and don't let your pride get in the way of self progression. Never give up and when your in need of a helping hand grab hold of it with all your might, I believe God puts everyone in our lives for a specific reason and gives us all the tools we need to get through trials and tribulations its are choice whether we choose to use them or not though.

Stay strong, stay on your grind, never give up and don't play yourself !

God bless 

Shan x 

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